Sometimes it seems that we argue about things like a t-shirt, a curtain, a work etc. A girl took one jacket from her older sister, who got angry supposedly about that jacket. And younger girl had got mad because her sister didn’t want to lend her cloth. But actually older girl was furious because her […]
Do you have realistic expectations? Looking for perfection
Long time I was looking for perfect stuff, perfect people, perfect everything. It was problem for me that everybody weren’t so kind and helpful like I wished for. It seemed like no one saw that I needed help, concern and support. I experienced certain absence so at some point I started to expect something more […]
Reasons of manipulating
There’s plenty information about manipulation on the net. We can find articles about its examples, techniques, ways of defence and how to extricate yourself from it. There’s little pages which explain why manipulative person manipulates. In this post we’ll look closer at this phenomenon in order to understand it. This article is NOT approval for […]
Directed, convenient kid vs developing kid?
Let’s say honestly that parents want their kids to: Be obedient, kind, nice & polite Become a doctor, lawyer etc. in the future Be convenient for parents (e.g. Patents want kids to not show anger) Behave in accordance with rules, behave always decently And do you act according above points every time? You demand or […]
Relation benefits & being used
Growing up, at some point we realize how’s in the world indeed. Our point of view is getting change or extend. We open our eyes on many matters. Like everyone, so I also was used. Still, I feel disgust. It’s not easily to swallow. Feeling bitterness, it’s time when we catch how reality works. We […]
3 wrong issues which society taught us
Many groups subliminally encoded us that we can be accepted only when we fit in. But when we try by force “fit” into group, actually we behave inauthentically. In the outside we show something but the truth is we think and feel something different. And then they don’t like us just as we are, but they […]
How to motivate yourself to be productive and stay motivated? What to do when no motivation?
Do you know how often I see in the media questions like: “How can I motivate myself to work hard?”, How do I motivate myself to exercise?”, “How do I get myself to become motivated and just study all the time?”, “How can I stop being lazy and motivate myself?”? Surely you also noticed a lot of such questions […]
Communication barriers, how to improve communication skills and why worth to? Cordial approach
We talk everyday. Communication takes place in every aspect of our lives. We communicate with family at home, with equals in college or school, with other students and teachers. At work we do it with boss and co-workers. In a library we speak to librarians. Toddlers talk in the sandbox, teenagers on the party, elders […]
How to calm down when you feel anger? E-book
We all know how it is to feel anger, be mad at somebody and how fiercely we can defend own view during quarrels. Maybe some of us unlearned the last thing, but most of us still experience moments of frustration, anger and even fury. Those emotions focus towards things, people, situations and even towards ourselves. […]
Brief e-book about parenthood which is raising kids
I reckon every parent knows how difficult is parenthood. As parenthood means having and raising kids, parents should reckon with responsibility for child development. Also many parents feel that they failed. Their kids run away from home, play hooky, behave wrongly, completely different than adults claim that they were trying children to raise. Some adults […]