Parents are used to picking on kids. It’s about mess in their rooms, it’s about the little one forgot something again, it’s about the tea which they spilled, it’s about they were late etc. Though, so many times you explained to them not to do such things. Often it’s about trifles. When kid is barely […]
Serious mistake which ruins couples from the inside
There are many divorces, and therefore there are also many psychic injuries. With each passing decade there are more and more splits as well as pain. Question is does this phenomenon have to increase? Can’t we impact to hold it back? Read on, and you’ll get to know. A really meaningful field, a field in […]
In what way you still don’t help yourself?
People want happiness. In fact, unknowingly we often get closer to something completely opposite. Often, we don’t even know what happiness really is. So in this article we’ll focus what it surely isn’t in order to exclude additional misery and pain. At least, we can know what to avoid and where to not go. I […]
On an equal footing that is about respect
Sometimes it seems that we argue about things like a t-shirt, a curtain, a work etc. A girl took one jacket from her older sister, who got angry supposedly about that jacket. And younger girl had got mad because her sister didn’t want to lend her cloth. But actually older girl was furious because her […]
Do you have realistic expectations? Looking for perfection
Long time I was looking for perfect stuff, perfect people, perfect everything. It was problem for me that everybody weren’t so kind and helpful like I wished for. It seemed like no one saw that I needed help, concern and support. I experienced certain absence so at some point I started to expect something more […]
Reasons of manipulating
There’s plenty information about manipulation on the net. We can find articles about its examples, techniques, ways of defence and how to extricate yourself from it. There’s little pages which explain why manipulative person manipulates. In this post we’ll look closer at this phenomenon in order to understand it. This article is NOT approval for […]
Directed, convenient kid vs developing kid?
Let’s say honestly that parents usually want their kids to: Be obedient, kind, nice & polite Become a doctor, lawyer etc. in the future Be convenient for parents (e.g. patents want kids to not show anger) Behave in accordance with rules, behave always decently And do you act according above points every time? You demand […]
Relation benefits & being used
Growing up, at some point we realize how’s in the world indeed. Our point of view is getting change or extend. We open our eyes on many matters. Like everyone, so I also was used. Still, I feel disgust. It’s not easily to swallow. Feeling bitterness, it’s time when we catch how reality works. We […]
3 wrong issues which society taught us
Many groups subliminally encoded us that we can be accepted only when we fit in. But when we try by force “fit” into group, actually we behave inauthentically. In the outside we show something but the truth is we think and feel something different. And then they don’t like us just as we are, but they […]
How to motivate yourself to be productive and stay motivated? What to do when no motivation?
Do you know how often I see in the media questions like: “How can I motivate myself to work hard?”, How do I motivate myself to exercise?”, “How do I get myself to become motivated and just study all the time?”, “How can I stop being lazy and motivate myself?”? Surely you also noticed a lot of such questions […]