The eternal dilemma – go or not? Take risk with benefits or not because of possibility losing anything? “If I risk, I’ll gain what I wanted. Hey! But I don’t want to lose what I have now! I won’t have it anymore if I go ahead…” – thoughts like that fight with each other in […]
Why talking about our emotions still does not work?
Although many of us know it’s worth to tell about emotions, we still have difficulties with good handling of it. A lot of understatements wait for us in our relations, and we still remain emotional beings. In emotion-field we hurt each other the most. We hurt and we’re hurt so much that because of that […]
The 9 things that kid doesn’t understand
Parents are used to picking on kids. It’s about mess in their rooms, it’s about the little one forgot something again, it’s about the tea which they spilled, it’s about they were late etc. Though, so many times you explained to them to not do such things. Often it’s about trifles. When kid is barely […]
Serious mistakes which ruin couples from the inside
There are many divorces, and therefore there are also many psychological injuries. With each passing decade there are more and more breakups as well as pain. The question is does this phenomenon have to increase? Can’t we impact to hold it back? You’ll get to know in this article. The really meaningful field, the field […]
On an equal footing that is about respect
Sometimes it seems that we argue about things like a t-shirt, a curtain, a work etc. A girl took one jacket from her older sister, who got angry supposedly about that jacket. And younger girl had got mad because her sister didn’t want to lend her cloth. But actually older girl was furious because her […]
Do you have realistic expectations? Looking for perfection
Long time I was looking for perfect stuff, perfect people, perfect everything. It was the problem for me that everybody weren’t so kind and helpful as I wished for. It seemed like no one saw that I needed help, concern and support. I have experienced certain absence so at some point I started to expect […]
Reasons of manipulating
There are plenty information about manipulation on the net. We can find articles about its examples, techniques, ways of defense and how to extricate yourself from it. There are little pages which explain why manipulative person manipulates. In this post we’ll look closer at this phenomenon in order to understand it. This article is NOT […]
Convenient kid vs developing, true kid?
Let’s say honestly that parents usually want their kids to: Be obedient, kind, nice & polite Become a doctor, lawyer etc. in the future Be convenient for parents (e.g. patents want kids to not show anger) Behave in accordance with rules, behave always decently And do you act according above points every time? You demand […]
Relation benefits & being used
Growing up, at some point we realize how’s in the world indeed. Our point of view is getting change or extend. We open our eyes on many matters. Like everyone, so I also was used. Still, I feel disgust. It’s not easily to swallow. Feeling bitterness, it’s time when we catch how reality works. We […]
3 wrong issues which society taught us
Many groups subliminally encoded us that we can be accepted only when we fit in. But when we try by force “fit” into group, actually we behave inauthentically. In the outside we show something but the truth is we think and feel something different. And then they don’t like us just as we are, but they […]